Episode 24: Minisode On Favorite Home Hangouts
Back to basics with a Q & A minisode this week as Misha and Chondra gear up for the holidays and battle the flu. Today's episode keeps it short and sweet as the Wives answer a question about their favorite things to do with a significant other when they are home. Get your minds out of the gutter and get ready to quiet quit Christmas!
Episode 23: Brandi Falconer: Building Community Behind the Lens + Dreaming Big
In the last episode of our December #CrewWives spotlight, Chondra and Misha welcome gifted photographer and entrepreneur Brandi Falconer of Wander & Dusk to the show to talk about weddings, ambitious travel, the importance of routines and her latest venture--The Dark Room--a women-owned Las Vegas photo studio and event space. Also hacking packing, The White Lotus, and anarchist spice rack organization.
Episode 22: Anne Sprague: Bunny Bonding + Being Friends First
In a bonus full-length episode continuing to spotlight #crewlife, the Wives welcome delightfully funny guest Anne Sprague to talk about extra long friendships that turn into love, quick engagements, finding a career path later in life, Love is Blind and why rabbit ownership is not for the faint of heart. Also, Misha's quest to make grammar fun and the foster dog fail everyone saw coming (except Chondra.)
Episode 21: Courtney Klimson: On Respect, Love + Advocating for Crew with The Roadie Clinic
In a special full episode, Chondra and Misha are joined by Courtney Klimson, founder of The Roadie Clinic, an advocacy network created to help support the physical, mental and emotional well-being of crew members and their families. Courtney shares her deep insight into the unique challenges of roadie life, including the deficits in available resources that she noticed throughout her journey as a touring crew wife and some incredible suggestions and tips to keeping the show on the road in a healthy way.
Also a very late intro to Chondra's (now) foster fail dog Celine, out-dated halloween costume planning, Jimmy Fallon, crying over Elton John's "Saturday Night's Alright for Fighting" and why cleavage is truly nature's pocket.
Episode 20: Band Wife Bonding Chat on Being Thankful
In this week's Minisode, Chondra and Misha talk gratitude for the most important things in life like family, new beginnings, good books...and public restrooms. Also, some VERY important news from the Band Wives camp that we can't (and likely won't) stop talking about.
No matter how you celebrate (or if at all) finding things to be thankful for helps make the week a little brighter.
Episode 19: Marie Trohman: Living By Design, City-Hopping + Giving All Or Nothing
Chondra and Misha are back this week with startlingly talented and hilarious guest, Marie Trohman. From her journey through the NYC art world to co-founding Los Angeles-based interior design firm PROEM in the midst of a global pandemic...and helping bring to life the stunning green kitchen that broke the internet this year (Seriously, Emma Chamberlain, can we come over for dinner?)
Marie talks self-care by way of 6AM workouts, the challenges of staying sane with a partner whose schedule is equally erratic, keeping a level-head in the midst of career highs and lows...and intentionally sabotaging Christmas by going too hard.
Also, giant spiders, Fall Out Boy and a small development in Poe news!
Episode 18: Minisode On Internet Hate
In this week's Minisode Q + A, Chondra and Misha tackle a listener's question about finding common ground with parenting styles between partners. The Wives talk in figure eights about raising children, breaking cycles, childhood and nature versus nurture. Also Misha's upcoming Vegas trip and Chonny's desperate attempts to meet Brendan Fraser at New York Comic Con. Special appearances from a rainbow on Misha's face and Chonny's flannel shirt of shame.
Episode 17: Julia Marie Arnold: Keeping the Faith, Selling Houses in a Hurricane + Quiet Quitting
This week Chondra and Misha sit down with the luminous and multi-faceted Julia Marie Arnold to chat about pulling double duty as both band wife AND pastor's wife to Stephen Christian of Anberlin. From working in real estate and parenting three daughters, to keeping angry texting in check and building a community in your own backyard, the gang commiserates on the ultra-high expectations for mamas in 2022, tour life and why goat yoga doesn't sound like a great idea.
Episode 15: Husna O'Connell: Finding Parenthood, Planning Vacays + Booting Bullies
In this week's episode, Chondra and Misha are talking with the lovely Husna O'Connell about coordinating life for a family of four, her move from the midwest to the East Coast, pivoting plans and kicking mean kids out of the playground. Also Basquiat, Neil Degrasse Tyson, long days, sciencey stuff and whether art has changed for the better (if that's even a thing.)
Episode 14 : Minisode On Whether Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
In this week's Q & A Minisode, Chondra and Misha chat about distance in relationships, keeping things fresh, saying no to normalcy and a big resounding yes to Trader Joe’s, messy bedrooms and being weird.
Episode 13: Abigail Stever: On Showing Up, Setting Boundaries + Why Quickbooks Is Hell
In this week's throwback episode from tour, Chondra and Misha talk shop with Chonny's Coheed band-wife-mate, the fantastic (and always soothing!) Abigail Stever...from her important and ongoing volunteer work (with both the Compeer Program and as a Rape Crisis Counselor in New York State) to an ever-growing laundry list of accomplishments in life, love and family. Join us for ABBA, wine in paper cups, the best damn Linzer Tarts on Earth, and a deep love for finding your road family + never letting go.
[Disclaimer: What do you get when you have two different dressing rooms in two different time zones with two microphones between three band wives, one loud sound check and ZERO sets of headphones? Pretty bad sound quality. But this one was too fun to scrap. Apologies in advance. Thanks for listening!]
Episode 12: Band Wife Bonding Chat
This week's Q & A Minisode has Chondra + Misha talking about mental health and their own strategies for handling stress, loneliness and heartache (that may or may not work for you.) Also what it feels like to release a novel, fostering pets and why it's important to check your kids' backpacks on the first day of school.
[If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org . Text MHA to 741741 to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor from Crisis Text Line.]
Episode 11: Tivoli Crescenzo: Marimba, Magical Parenting + Making an Ewok Village
Chondra and Misha sit down with wonderfully talented musician and mama Tivoli Crescenzo to talk about joining her brother's high school drum line as a middle schooler, creating core memories with your kids, her best friend Casey and sibling (un)rivalry. Join the Wives as they ask a million questions about living life in the Rain Shadow of the Pacific Northwest and beg Tivoli to build them a treehouse village in her backyard. Between two tour buses in two different states and technological challenges, it's a wonder this episode happened at all--but it was worth the wait.
Episode 10: Minisode On Mental Health + Coping With Big Emotions
This week's Q & A Minisode has Chondra + Misha talking about mental health and their own strategies for handling stress, loneliness and heartache (that may or may not work for you.) Also what it feels like to release a novel, fostering pets and why it's important to check your kids' backpacks on the first day of school.
[If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org . Text MHA to 741741 to connect with a trained Crisis Counselor from Crisis Text Line.]
Episode 09: Crysta Barrett: Taking Work On Tour, Animal Empathy + Becoming a 'Reel' Housewife of Laguna Beach
The Wives are back this week with lovely, sugary sweet special guest Crysta Barrett. Kick your (high) heels up and sit in as they chat about talking to animals, weigh in on the best countries to visit, the unexpected creative joys of living in a place you love--oh, and the wedding gown that almost caught on fire under Reel Big Fish's tour bus.
Episode 08: Minisode On Jealousy + Self-Sabotage
This week's Q & A Minisode has Chondra + Misha answering a BIG one--how to stop the green-eyed monster from effecting your relationships. There's also a lot of gab about favorite kid's jams, victorian mourning gowns and why time absolutely isn't real.
Episode 07: Lexie Rule: The Many Tests of Pregnancy, Escaping To Bali + Hidden Talents
Chondra and Misha talk everything under the sun with with dazzlingly fun and wise Band Wife Lexie Rule--from her job as chief of staff for an AI technology company, to uprooting your life in a global pandemic and potential side hustles as the voice of the Pout Pout Fish.
Episode 06: Minisode On Changing Your Mind + Finding Time
The Wives answer your burning questions in a bi-weekly minisode. This week Chondra & Misha chat about committing to your decisions, passions versus hobbies, and why choice paralysis is your biggest enemy.
Episode 05: Kira Cooper: Reality, Real Estate + Real Commitment
Chondra and Misha ask our eight questions to teacher, real-estate agent, mother and brilliant thinker, Kira Cooper...and chat about partnerships, getting out of your own way and that time her husband Zach, joined Coheed the day their first daughter was born.
Episode 04: Minisode On Identity, Critics + Letting People Like Euphoria
The Wives answer your burning questions in a bi-weekly minisode. This week Chondra & Misha chat about maintaining identity, learning to silence critics (including yourself) and why none of it really matters anyway.